Wednesday, October 30, 2013
Are you seriously out in public, wearing that?
I just need to say once again, pajamas are for you at home. Not at the store, not at the doctors office. If you are a three hundred pound woman, please do not wear fuzzy pajama bottoms out in public! The general public already has negative thoughts on obesity and people like you are why!
Sunday, October 27, 2013
Family is fickle
Sometimes I think you get to a point in your life when you decide, "either you're for me or you're against me", unfortunately making these decisions suck.
I've always felt that my family and friends always had my back, that no matter what they would be there for me. HA! Well, go thru a divorce, they split like the red sea!
I don't know what to say to the family and friends that want to console me, stop it, I made the choice, you know I did, congratulate me, don't feel bad for me, I wanted a fresh start, and all new beginning, don't feel sorry for me. I'm going to be happy.
I understand that most friends and family don't know what goes on behind closed doors, and ending a long marriage, seems crazy, please just shut up, be there for me, or get out of my way, I don't have time for pity parties.
Divorce is sad, and frustrating and there are a lot of emotions involved, me having to deal with yours on top of all of mine, no thank you.
I have not realized how much I have missed out on, when it comes to being me, the real me. I have a beautiful daughter that came out of my marriage, she is the best thing to ever happen to me.
We are going to be alright. Don't pick a side, just be there. And keep your thoughts to yourself.
I've always felt that my family and friends always had my back, that no matter what they would be there for me. HA! Well, go thru a divorce, they split like the red sea!
I don't know what to say to the family and friends that want to console me, stop it, I made the choice, you know I did, congratulate me, don't feel bad for me, I wanted a fresh start, and all new beginning, don't feel sorry for me. I'm going to be happy.
I understand that most friends and family don't know what goes on behind closed doors, and ending a long marriage, seems crazy, please just shut up, be there for me, or get out of my way, I don't have time for pity parties.
Divorce is sad, and frustrating and there are a lot of emotions involved, me having to deal with yours on top of all of mine, no thank you.
I have not realized how much I have missed out on, when it comes to being me, the real me. I have a beautiful daughter that came out of my marriage, she is the best thing to ever happen to me.
We are going to be alright. Don't pick a side, just be there. And keep your thoughts to yourself.
Your parents who are now grandparents...Oy Vey!!!
I know what happened to my body when I gave birth to my daughter, I was there. My life changed dramatically. But what the heck happened to my parents!!!!
My mother who I thought was the wicked witch, is now a sweet loving grandma, or as my daughter calls her "Ga-Ga". I don't know what happened to this woman, or her house for that matter.
When I was growing up, toys are to be kept in your room, and they'd better have been nice & neat, or she came in there with a garbage bag and thru your crap out! Now...my daughter has toys and junk in every square inch of the house, and my mother doesn't say a word, they just walk around them!
Sweets, candy, cookies, ice cream....those were special treats or for your birthday when I was a kid. You wanted a snack, well here's a carrot for ya! Now the drawers and cabinets are stocked full of goodies, and my daughter can have them whenever she wants, 5 minutes before dinner, sure go ahead, have 2 cookies! WHAT THE HECK!
And my dad, he's a whole other story, here is a 60 year old man and gets down on his hands and knees and crawls around with my daughter around the kitchen table. 20 years ago, this man barely made it to the couch to pass out after work! I have no idea what happened to him either.
Here is what I know, I know that when I was little my grandparents all spoiled the heck out of me, and now my daughter is getting spoiled. I hope she has the great memories of her grandparents that I do of mine.
My mother who I thought was the wicked witch, is now a sweet loving grandma, or as my daughter calls her "Ga-Ga". I don't know what happened to this woman, or her house for that matter.
When I was growing up, toys are to be kept in your room, and they'd better have been nice & neat, or she came in there with a garbage bag and thru your crap out! Now...my daughter has toys and junk in every square inch of the house, and my mother doesn't say a word, they just walk around them!
Sweets, candy, cookies, ice cream....those were special treats or for your birthday when I was a kid. You wanted a snack, well here's a carrot for ya! Now the drawers and cabinets are stocked full of goodies, and my daughter can have them whenever she wants, 5 minutes before dinner, sure go ahead, have 2 cookies! WHAT THE HECK!
And my dad, he's a whole other story, here is a 60 year old man and gets down on his hands and knees and crawls around with my daughter around the kitchen table. 20 years ago, this man barely made it to the couch to pass out after work! I have no idea what happened to him either.
Here is what I know, I know that when I was little my grandparents all spoiled the heck out of me, and now my daughter is getting spoiled. I hope she has the great memories of her grandparents that I do of mine.
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